Four Reasons for Male Low Libido
Male low libido can be hurtful to a partner who desires them. But the cultural myth that a man doesn’t want sex because his wife is unattractive or unenthusiastic simply…
How To Have Miserable Sex
Teaching yourself how to have miserable sex is easy. Do nothing, plan nothing, don’t seek to understand your partner’s sexual desires, stick to only what you know, and BINGO! In…
Defining Sexual Pain Disorders & How Women Suffer From Painful Intercourse
“Vulvar sexual pain disorders are often frustrating sexual pain disorders for treating physicians and always cause sexual dysfunction in those who suffer with them,” says Deborah Metzger, Ph.D., MD. Medical…
Mindfulness as a Road Map to Self-Compassion
Our subconscious minds carry so much meaning in our daily thoughts, feelings, concerns, and reactions. Not only are our emotions affected by our subconscious needs pulling at us, but our…
When Is Too Soon or Too Late For Couples Therapy
How soon is too soon for couples therapy? As a couple’s therapist, you might think I would say it’s never too soon. Certainly, we know that premarital counseling statistically lowers…
Sex and Dating After Divorce – Are You Ready?
Are you divorced and thinking of entering the dating scene for the first time since your marriage ended? One of the strongest human drives is to feel deeply attached to…
Best Ways to Initiate Sex with Askers vs Touchers
Kristina is the character of a young beleaguered mother appearing in the popular television drama/comedy, Parenthood. In the show, Kristina has an autistic son and teenage daughter. In a recent…
Six Secrets to Increase Low Libido in Women
A low-libido wife — or any low-libido woman — may not want it as much as you do, but she probably can’t explain why, so you feel a sense of…
Can Couples Counseling Can Save Your Relationship?
We’ve all heard stories about relatives and friends who seemed to have a decent relationship…. until they went to couples counseling. Then, they broke up. It’s scary to think the…
Relationship Counseling: Why & How It Works
What makes relationship counseling work? Relationship counseling works if there is a theory behind it. Many relationship counselors say they are eclectic. They do what works. But science has examined…