When Couples Therapy Doesn’t Work
Couples therapy doesn’t work. Really? If not, it can leave a couple hopeless about having the relationship that they wished for, expected and wanted. Angelique called us and said she…
Bad Timing – How to Turn Toward Your Partner’s Sexual Bid When You Don’t Want Sex
Bad timing. Many times our partner’s desire does not line up with what we are feeling in the moment. Couples fight over sex so often when in reality they are…
What Is Family Therapy
Family therapy; what is is all about? So many people could use a third party to help when things get tough at different developmental stages in a family. Maybe there…
8 Ways To Get Your Sex Drive Back After Menopause
You’re not sure how long ago you had your last period. But over the last several years, you’ve noticed lots of changes in your body: you don’t stay asleep all…
Four Reasons for Male Low Libido
Male low libido can be hurtful to a partner who desires them. But the cultural myth that a man doesn’t want sex because his wife is unattractive or unenthusiastic simply…
How To Have Miserable Sex
Teaching yourself how to have miserable sex is easy. Do nothing, plan nothing, don’t seek to understand your partner’s sexual desires, stick to only what you know, and BINGO! In…
Defining Sexual Pain Disorders & How Women Suffer From Painful Intercourse
“Vulvar sexual pain disorders are often frustrating sexual pain disorders for treating physicians and always cause sexual dysfunction in those who suffer with them,” says Deborah Metzger, Ph.D., MD. Medical…
Mindfulness as a Road Map to Self-Compassion by Bridget Cybulski
by Bridget Cybulski Our subconscious minds carry so much meaning in our daily thoughts, feelings, concerns, and reactions. Not only are our emotions affected by our subconscious needs pulling at…
When Is Too Soon or Too Late For Couples Therapy
How soon is too soon for couples therapy? As a couple’s therapist, you might think I would say it’s never too soon. Certainly, we know that premarital counseling statistically lowers…
Sex and Dating After Divorce – Are You Ready?
Are you divorced and thinking of entering the dating scene for the first time since your marriage ended? One of the strongest human drives is to feel deeply attached to…