A girlfriend called me yesterday saying that two of her friends were unable to achieve intercourse. Full penetration was impossible six months into their marriages. Too much pain was the…
What’s the difference between a “slut” and a “good” woman? Is it a coincidence? On Halloween—the same day we are acknowledging the dark and evil side of life—the predominant costume choices…
Healing the Whore-Madonna split and reviving sex during parenthood Jake called into a morning drive radio talk show where I’m a sexpert and reported that there had been no sex in his…
Physicians have asked me for clear guidance to help their patients have more comfortable virgin sex. Her first experiences colors a woman’s feelings about sex for years ahead. The right…
Why talk to your kids about the college sexual culture? Do you imagine your college son or daughter participating in hookup culture on college campuses? How about them hooking up…
Today, more and more women are less and less certain of themselves as sexual beings beyond the hype of advertising. Body self-esteem determines desire. Consider Judy: “I just don’t feel…
Divorce is quite common in today’s society, with estimates that 1 in 3 marriages will disrupt within 10 years. For children of parents who are separating or divorcing, we know…
Stay sexually active during breast cancer treatment—try “me-only” nights! Only attempt sexual intercourse with a lubricant after 4-6 weeks rehabilitation; pain begets pain Use different sexual positions that stress the…
Sexual feelings and loving feelings are not automatic but needn’t fade. We marry our sexy true companion. In the beginning of our storybook romance, sexual chemistry is strong and we…
You’re revved up. You’re going a hundred miles an hour. You’re just at that perfect moment to slide into place. Bam! for no apparent reason—flat tire! Or a dry, desert…