What’s the Best Time of Day to Have Sex
Morning sex vs. evening sex – it’s an age-old conflict, usually with men on one side and women on the other. Men wake up aroused, so morning is prime time.…
7 Snafus During Sex: What to Do When Things Go Wrong
For most of us, sex doesn’t really resemble the perfectly choreographed scenes we see in the movies. In real life, there are snafus – someone’s elbow catches someone’s hair, someone…
Five Sex Tips for Men About Women
How to get her interested and keep her coming back for more I asked my husband what men would like to hear about. He responded that men wanted to know…
Five Sex Tips for Women About Men
Male sexuality is not mysterious. Here’s what she needs to know to make him really happy in bed and change the sexual power struggle: 1) Men want to be desired…
Should We See a Sex Therapist?
Putting to bed common fears about seeing a sex therapist Common fears about sex therapy: 1) the sex therapist will suggest a threesome to spice up our sex life, 2)…
Extra Whipped Cream and Sexual Pursuers
Pursuers are not powerless to change the sexual dynamic and create better sex. I asked for extra whipped cream when I bought an ice cream sundae with my family last…
Sexual Distancers Surprisingly Often Like Sex
Three ways lower libido spouses can make their partners happy Sexual distancers like sex. Truly, they do. They like sex to happen when they are ready for it, when they are…
A Low Libido Woman’s Six Secrets
A low libido woman doesn’t want it as much as you and she can’t explain why. You feel dread. Or maybe because men and women experience the rhythm of their…
Sexuality of Hope or Despair in Marriage
Attachment and its effect on sexuality. We marry with a commitment that sex will continue to make our union alive and complete. With sacred vows we commit onto sexual fidelity—an…
Sexual Change – Is it Genuine? (or Are They Just Doing It Because I Asked)
How to know if sexual change is authentic and permanent Changing sexual patterns is tough. Accepting change is tougher. We want to know two things about our partner’s about-face: Is…