Heal the Whore-Madonna Split and Have More Sex While Parenting
Healing the Whore-Madonna split and reviving sex during parenthood Jake called into a morning drive radio talk show where I’m a sexpert and reported that there had been no sex in his…
Making Virgin Sex More Comfortable.
Physicians have asked me for clear guidance to help their patients have more comfortable virgin sex. Her first experiences colors a woman’s feelings about sex for years ahead. The right…
Talking with College Kids about Hooking Up
Why talk to your kids about the college sexual culture? Do you imagine your college son or daughter participating in hookup culture on college campuses? How about them hooking up…
Desire and Body Self-Esteem
Today, more and more women are less and less certain of themselves as sexual beings beyond the hype of advertising. Body self-esteem determines desire. Consider Judy: “I just don’t feel…
Which is Worse for Children – Marital Conflict or Divorce?
Divorce is quite common in today’s society, with estimates that 1 in 3 marriages will disrupt within 10 years. For children of parents who are separating or divorcing, we know…
Breast Cancer Survivor’s Vagina Wishlist
Stay sexually active during breast cancer treatment—try “me-only” nights! Only attempt sexual intercourse with a lubricant after 4-6 weeks rehabilitation; pain begets pain Use different sexual positions that stress the…
Why Sexual Desire Fades and How to Keep it Strong
Sexual feelings and loving feelings are not automatic but needn’t fade. We marry our sexy true companion. In the beginning of our storybook romance, sexual chemistry is strong and we…
Staying Sexy through ED and Vaginal Dryness
You’re revved up. You’re going a hundred miles an hour. You’re just at that perfect moment to slide into place. Bam! for no apparent reason—flat tire! Or a dry, desert…
Give me sex; I’ll give you talk. Talk to me; I’ll give you sex
For more sex, unhook from the power struggle. Contingent problem-solving results in lonely, sexless marriages. Power struggles in marriage impact physical intimacy every day. When the answer to “do you want…
Overwhelmed by Life, Underwhelmed by Sex – Excerpt from Laurie’s Book
The first part of an excerpt from Laurie’s book. An excerpt from Laurie’s forth-coming book: Wanting Sex Again! “I never want to have sex again!” blurted out Karen, a 33-year-old willowy…