When Couples Therapy Doesn’t Work
Couples therapy doesn’t work. Really? If not, it can leave a couple hopeless about having the relationship that they wished for, expected and wanted. Angelique called us and said she…
Bad Timing – How to Turn Toward Your Partner’s Sexual Bid When You Don’t Want Sex
Bad timing. Many times our partner’s desire does not line up with what we are feeling in the moment. Couples fight over sex so often when in reality they are…
How To Have Miserable Sex
Teaching yourself how to have miserable sex is easy. Do nothing, plan nothing, don’t seek to understand your partner’s sexual desires, stick to only what you know, and BINGO! In…
Best Ways to Initiate Sex with Askers vs Touchers
Kristina is the character of a young beleaguered mother appearing in the popular television drama/comedy, Parenthood. In the show, Kristina has an autistic son and teenage daughter. In a recent…
Six Secrets to Increase Low Libido in Women
A low-libido wife — or any low-libido woman — may not want it as much as you do, but she probably can’t explain why, so you feel a sense of…
Sexual Disconnection is Fatal to Relationship
Sexual Disconnection is Fatal to a Romance By Dr. Laurie Watson, PhD, LMFT, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Sexual disconnection means the couple has lost their vibe, their juice, their sexual…
Spice Things Up – Variety
Couples often ask me, as their sex therapist, how they can spice things up in bed. I think this question, most often, is really a request for permission to act…
Five Sex Tips for Women About Men
Male sexuality is not mysterious. Here’s what she needs to know to make him really happy in bed and change the sexual power struggle: 1) Men want to be desired…
Extra Whipped Cream and Sexual Pursuers
Pursuers are not powerless to change the sexual dynamic and create better sex. I asked for extra whipped cream when I bought an ice cream sundae with my family last…
Sexual Distancers Surprisingly Often Like Sex
Three ways lower libido spouses can make their partners happy Sexual distancers like sex. Truly, they do. They like sex to happen when they are ready for it, when they are…